Does Fairy tales have impact on the
choice of your partner .
I have written over it before and I was forced to write again as it came across again in my life due to some reasons .
I think it does!!!!Yeah it does affect .Every girl wants to marry a knight in shining armor. Sometimes they fall for the dorky guys though, but to them, he is their knight in shining armor ;).I don’t know why Girls always think like that. To some extra crazy minds, fairy tales can portray an overly utopian and totally unrealistic idea of what life will be like when we meet the "Right one." Then, when the dream person doesn't measure up to the fantasy, a person thinks wtf? It all in the mind I guess. People tend to always look for what they see in dreams ..what they want in dreams and fairies and always due to their (may be ) greed/ego/fascination or( may be ) they are too stubborn ..people tend to relate it to what they get. It probably starts with it.
I certainly realize and come back to this only "Life is a process of becoming, a combination of states we have to go through. Where people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a kind of death.".Movies, books, testimonies of love and hope survive time because of the Cinderella/Romeo in us that wants to believe it is true regardless if it is a partner, we want to experience Santa, Cupid, and all the hero's of our youth. And you know what, everybody does so.!!
Guys are also no less. Guys do always want a princess of sorts and girls always wish to have that price charming on a white horse with a sword in his hand .if not that they always get attracted with super heroes...maybe I m wrong ..but I think so ...I don’t know why we always need what we dream of(actually that the way it should be in all other cases)..but sometimes we do tend to forget about being practical and think otherwise..how funny is it no???..it’s always an unanswered question. and we always try to find out the answer..and some people spend their whole life for finding answers and expecting the unexpected out of what they get (I am bit harsh now).Anyways life's confusing sometimes.
Fairy tales can come true, can happen to you and I have no reason to commit its sure but ... A fairy tale partner is one who comes along, makes your heart skip a beat and satisfy our preconceived notions of how they should be.
Finding love is a art or a science or anything but not a fairy tale And as the fairy tale says, you both live happily ever after. ... a quick comparison between our model of romantic choice and arranged marriages, ... There are obviously a host of factors that can influence everything, ... we have made a mistake, and our current partner is not really “the one. ...we wanted as per in our fairy tale.
I have written over it before and I was forced to write again as it came across again in my life due to some reasons .
I think it does!!!!Yeah it does affect .Every girl wants to marry a knight in shining armor. Sometimes they fall for the dorky guys though, but to them, he is their knight in shining armor ;).I don’t know why Girls always think like that. To some extra crazy minds, fairy tales can portray an overly utopian and totally unrealistic idea of what life will be like when we meet the "Right one." Then, when the dream person doesn't measure up to the fantasy, a person thinks wtf? It all in the mind I guess. People tend to always look for what they see in dreams ..what they want in dreams and fairies and always due to their (may be ) greed/ego/fascination or( may be ) they are too stubborn ..people tend to relate it to what they get. It probably starts with it.
I certainly realize and come back to this only "Life is a process of becoming, a combination of states we have to go through. Where people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a kind of death.".Movies, books, testimonies of love and hope survive time because of the Cinderella/Romeo in us that wants to believe it is true regardless if it is a partner, we want to experience Santa, Cupid, and all the hero's of our youth. And you know what, everybody does so.!!
Guys are also no less. Guys do always want a princess of sorts and girls always wish to have that price charming on a white horse with a sword in his hand .if not that they always get attracted with super heroes...maybe I m wrong ..but I think so ...I don’t know why we always need what we dream of(actually that the way it should be in all other cases)..but sometimes we do tend to forget about being practical and think otherwise..how funny is it no???..it’s always an unanswered question. and we always try to find out the answer..and some people spend their whole life for finding answers and expecting the unexpected out of what they get (I am bit harsh now).Anyways life's confusing sometimes.
Fairy tales can come true, can happen to you and I have no reason to commit its sure but ... A fairy tale partner is one who comes along, makes your heart skip a beat and satisfy our preconceived notions of how they should be.
Finding love is a art or a science or anything but not a fairy tale And as the fairy tale says, you both live happily ever after. ... a quick comparison between our model of romantic choice and arranged marriages, ... There are obviously a host of factors that can influence everything, ... we have made a mistake, and our current partner is not really “the one. ...we wanted as per in our fairy tale.
amen:) i completely agree with this post
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