My daddy Strongest.

Hello Everybody ,Well This is my 100th Post on BlogSpot , so I wanted to dedicate this to someone special , very special .Now about the title. My Daddy Strongest’ it reminds us of the Dhara advertisement which used to be aired on TV some time back. My dad Loves me too much but he never shows that love as he has to be strong and tough and wants me to be strong and tough as well, I must tell you I was not pampered as a child But was given everything that was necessary for a good upbringing.

I have written many posts on mother and mothers love But I guess this is the right platform and opportunity to write about The Dearest Dad .I have had my share of differences with my dad but those are so small to be taken into account , I can never forget some of the small things which are so big in my life. For Dad his loved ones happiness meant more to him than his own. Being from a middle class family and from a village which  was far away from the nearby city studying hard to get a job in a bank was a commendable feat for him. More so because no one in the big joint family made it so far. He always put others happiness before his, thus gaining so much love and respect .Ours was always a conservative family where education was important to both the genders. He encouraged both his children to pursue the studies . While I was in two minds to join my dream company as it involved a lot of travel, he made me realize to always hold on to my dreams and pursue it.

I can never forget that I use to drink water from his cupped hands when We used to go places for picnics and the taps were too high for my height. He has been a guide to me in every sphere for my life .He has been just a call away when ever where ever I needed him. He has spent sleepless nights for me whenever I was not well. He was there, when I first learned to ride my bicycle, years back, he was there holding and seeing that I don’t fall down. He has given me the necessary freedom in every aspect of life , be it my carrier , be it my decisions !He always got what I wanted, He got me my PC/ my Bike and many such things. He was there and talked with me , in spite of my miss behaving with him many times. As children we don't understand the hardships our parents go through to make us safe and happy, Dad was and has been transferred to many cities he has  struggled alone without his family but did not uproot his children from their familiar surroundings. Whenever I am around him, I seem to be engulfed in a warm and serene cocoon.  For me, my dad is the epitome of all the goodness in this world and everyday is Father's Day. I Love you dad

Well I guess if I keep writing These things This post will never end , But let me tell you there are things in my life which are just possible only because I have such a wonderful dad.I thank you god for giving me such wonderful parents.

The Gay Love Letter

April 26 2012 ,

To My Beloved Jayant ,

How are you? I am writing to you with a voluptuous pleasure. I still remember the last meeting that we had. Your compassionate words are still ringing as music to my ears. The thought that this paper is going to be in your hands fills me with joy and brings tears to my eyes. I am longing for the next golden opportunity to meet you. You are always on my mind, I can't stop thinking about you. The first thoughts when I wake, and the last thoughts before I go to sleep are of you. I am such a lucky guy to have found such a wonderful man in you. I miss you so much, it has been too long since the last time I saw you.

Your smile is so beautiful and magical. Every time that I think of your smile it lights me up inside. Even when I am having a really bad day, seeing you smile makes me want to smile too and it makes me forget about the previous events of the day.

Jayant , you must be the most caring person on earth. You seem to have an unlimited amount of patience and kindness. Every time I make a mistake you are right there to support me. The time that we parted still haunts me , I know I have been cruel to you by choosing Maya over you but believe me these six months I have been with Maya I have missed you every second , I know I got my temporary desires fulfilled but believe me you are the only one who gave my mind and my Soul the fulfillment it deserved. I know and understand how you would have felt when I said I want to part ways but trust me I was blinded , By my bodily desires for that woman who was never mine .

Thank you for all your patience with me and your uncanny ability to realize that I’m just be emotional or irrational and somehow shake it all off. You gotta teach me how to let go like you do. I love you honey and I am so sorry. I will continue to try to keep my emotions and stress under control. Even more I’ll try to not take them out of you when it’s not your problem and you didn’t have anything to do with it. Thank you for listening and loving me so much.I have had such a great time with you no matter what we are doing. As long as you are around, even doing the most mundane activity is fun.I want to spend as much time with you as possible. I miss you so much.

Please come back I promise I will never hurt you again. I want to bathe your neck with kisses. Kisses that fondle you. Kisses that make you moan. Kisses that make us moan. Our kiss shall be memorized among the lovers, whenever our lips unite in a love story. Darling, please come back to me. Please come back soon, I need you, I love you.

Yours Only,

Micky !!!

PS  : This is a gay love letter as challenged by  Ani The Mesh  "Imagine you have a gay partner and he is furious with you because now you are attached to a girl. Write something to bring him back?"

PS 2: I hope I have done justice , Please this is not to make fun of the orientation or hurt anyone , If someone feels so I am sorry Its just poorly covered up.

PS 3: "badnaam hi sahi , naam to hua"

Captain Awesome's Interview

Ani The Mesh's Interview
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One of the most Famous Blogger on Indiblogger tell you something about himself here :


1. Can you tell us a little about yourself? your blog , and your aspirations ! 


-"IT Project Manager by profession and everything else by passion. An avid music lover with a graduation in Indian Classical Music. Love to play my Hawaiian Guitar (Lap Steel Guitar) and a passionate writer; this is all about me. I have two blogs. ""


I write fiction on Story in pieces and mostly on social issues and other stuff on Towers and Shadows. 


I will tell you about my aspirations by narrating a true story. Its actually a conversation which happened between my wife (W) and myself (M) about a year ago.


W: What do you want to become in your life, I mean in the long term?
M: Have you heard of Naman Singh?
W: No.
M: Ruchit Shrivastava?
W: No.
M: Phani Manukonda?
W (irritated): No, who are these people and what have they to do with my question.
M: Just have a little patience and answer me. Have you heard of Subhash Chandra Bose, Abdul Kalam and Ratan Tata?
W: Yeah, I know all of them.
M: This is what I want to become.


2. How you first got involved in with blogging?
Answer : "It was just by chance. I was going through a terrible phase of my life and was missing my Maa. I had this fear of losing her and this is I suddenly wrote something about it. I really don't remember how and why I registered a blog on blogger and posted it there."


3. What do you find most challenging about blogging about your topic?
Answer : "Right now, lack of time. "


4. Tell me about some of the people you've met while working on your blog?
Answer : Hemal Shah from Indianomics, Roshan (The Sorcerer), Rennie and Vineet from Indiblogger. In fact, there are many. I have this colleague of mine who is also on Indiblogger and we came to know about it after we met as colleagues. And yes, Revathi, my friend and ex-colleague who introduced me to Indiblogger.


5. How would (someone) describe your blogging style?
Answer : Straight forward and conversational.


6. What do you do when you aren't working on your blog?
Answer : Getting bashed by my boss and when I am not doing that also I may be found playing guitar, listening to songs, reading books or simply sleeping. Yes, I love sleeping :)


7 .Are you a full time blogger? How did you get into blogging and why?
Answer : I am a part-time blogger. I think second part of the question is a repeat of question#2.


8. What networking do you do that you feel helps your blogging business?
Answer : Obviously social networking sites, blogging platforms and I also believe in words of mouth. 


9. How do you keep coming up with material/content for your blog? Many people struggle with coming up with different articles/posts and they only have one blog.
Answer : I have this habit of observing things deeply which serve as a raw material for my posts.


10. Whats your strategy with your blog in general?
Answer : Keep blogging, keep original blogging.


11. Do you think Pagerank plays a vital role in a blog's life?
Answer : No.


12. What would you prioritize? Content? SEO? Traffic? Readers?
Answer : Content


13. What's the best thing a blogger can give to his readers?
Answer : Feeling of belongingness through his words.


14. A lot of people are interested in blogging for the money earning potential. What are some tips for Answer : people interesting in making money from blogging? What are some realistic expectations in regards to what can be made?
I blog for myself and my readers, so can't really comment about it.


15. What motivates you most in life ?
Answer : My failures and belief in God.


16. What has been your strategy for creating visibility to yourself and your blog?
Answer : Ofcourse good and original content, networking with fellow bloggers, marketing on Social network sites and then commenting on similar blogs. Last one helps a lot, believe me.


17 What was the most challenging moment in your blog content development process and why?
Answer : Challenge is not over yet. There is this post which is lying unpublished for last one year. I'm unable to think how to conclude it. Perhaps because it's on a controvertial topic.


18. Everyone has a favorite/least favorite post. Name yours and why?
Answer : Sir Arthor Cannon Doyle.


19. What's your take on sponsored reviews?
Answer : Sucks


20. Name some of the bloggers whom you look up to and why?
Answer : Restless (My World My Perception), her posts on women issues are so honest and touching that I am tempted to read them the moment she posts. Another author is Piyush (Mera-Panna). He is an awesome poet.




21. If someone was interested in blogging, what would be a few things you would suggest?
Answer : Most important thing is reading. If you don't read, you can't write. Next, write for yourself and you'll automatically loved by your readers.


22. your connection with Indi and the experience ?
Answer : As I said earlier, I was introduced to Indiblogger by my friend Revathy. And believe me, it has been a wonderful experience. I have met so many wonderful bloggers and many of them are close friends now. Pramod, Sorcerer, Hemal, Stephen, Gayathri, Pooja, Vinay: we keep talking on phone and chatting on FB and GTalk. List is bigger and I have missed many names here.
One more thing, I am a big fan of Rennie's management and enterpreneur skills. There are few things to learn from him, his patience and art of speaking. He knows well when and what to speak and when and what not to speak.


23.Words for me.
Answer : I have read some of your posts and they feel as if straight from the heart. I am sure you'll go miles if you keep blogging this way. All the best!




IT was so nice of ani-the-mesh as he is popularly known for his time for this interview.Well I am planning to rope in some of the more well known bloggers to interview.

Jahnvi's Interview

As in my previous post I told you that Jahnvi took the pain of interviewing many bloggers  , so I guess it was Time ; I take her interview.

You can see Jahnv'si blog here.

The Interview goes as below.

1. Can you tell us a little about yourself? your blog , and your aspirations ! 

- Am yet another person amongst so many. My blog is nothing but my thoughts typed out, whether someone likes them or not. And as for my aspirations - I have none major,i live life the way it comes

2. How you first got involved in with blogging?
- By seeing a friend blog. I was always a writer, so the platform seemed perfect

3. What do you find most challenging about blogging about your topic?
- To choose what to write amongst the million thoughts in the head

4. Tell me about some of the people you’ve met while working on your blog?
 - Leo (Vinay), you, Anu, Red Handed, Bikramji, Aame etc are a few, there are many.

5. How would (someone) describe your blogging style?
- freelancer :p

6. What do you do when you aren’t working on your blog?
 - thinking or music (or studies)

7 .Are you a full time blogger? How did you get into blogging and why?
- Yes I am. I told you how and why earlier :p

8. What networking do you do that you feel helps your blogging business?
- I post it on twitter, fb and indi... but am not sure where my traffic comes from, coz stats show most visitors from google :p

9. How do you keep coming up with material/content for your blog? Many people struggle with coming up with different articles/posts and they only have one blog.
 - I faced that block initially... now it's only a matter of write whatever comes to heart. Material is in plenty, we just have to stop being choosy

10. Whats your strategy with your blog in general?
- None

11. Do you think Pagerank plays a vital role in a blog’s life?
- No

12. What would you prioritize? Content? SEO? Traffic? Readers?
 - Content and then readers

13. What’s the best thing a blogger can give to his readers?
- Truth in thought. Don't write what you don't think

14. A lot of people are interested in blogging for the money earning potential. What are some tips for people interesting in making money from blogging? What are some realistic expectations in regards to what can be made?
- I disbelieve in this concept.

15. What motivates you most in life ?
 - Failure

16. What has been your strategy for creating visibility to yourself and your blog?
 - Give the content, the visibility will come itself in time

17 What was the most challenging moment in your blog content development process and why?
 - Going through the block as is discussed a few questions earlier, it is hard to not be choosy.

18. Everyone has a favorite/least favorite post. Name yours and why?
 - My fav are "my story" and "what happens when the worst is over" coz they r serious issues and i m happy i was able to write on them.

19. What’s your take on sponsored reviews?
 - Not needed

20. Name some of the bloggers whom you look up to and why?
 - Leo, Harshit, Anu - great writers and poets

21. If someone was interested in blogging, what would be a few things you would suggest?
- Just one, if you want to blog, open your heart to your readers, rest everything is mere technicalities.

Thanks again for the time and I appreciate your efforts for taking the interview.

My Interview

Well , Jahnvi a fellow blogger took My Interview on her blog.
Here I am posting here as well.:)


1. Full Name : *optional – Rahul Miglani
2. Blog Name : *optional – Desire v/s Destiny 
3. Your one post that is your best till date (as per you) : *optional – One Night Stand ;Really ! and
Confession : I Hit and Ran ! These are the 2
4.What motivates you most in life – My dad
5. What is that that pulls you down – Traffic  , welcome to delhi
6. What is your one most precious dream – I wanna be a millionaire so freaking bad !!! Well I wanna own a house first !
7. Who is the one most important person to you – My wife !
8. Is your life today how you had imagined it just 5 years ago – well 90% .
9. Are you the same as the you 10 years ago – No Freaking ways !
10. What is your present profession – Software enginner
11. Which other profession would you liked to be in – I would have been a cricketer !!!
12. What part of nature fascinates you the most – The wilderness !
13. Do you believe in fate – As I say its desire v/s destiny , Life is a just like a video game !!! 2 fighters on either side !! One player is desire and the other is Destiny
14. If you had to change one thing about your past, what would it be – Nothing , My past made me learn and made me what I am
15. If you could see into the future, what would you like to get to know – What is bank balance  , Well frankly Nothing !!! otherwise My motivation to achieve things will dim down
16. Is there anyone who you believe deserves more or less attention than you are giving him/her – yes , My wife , she thinks I give her less attention and I agree !  
17. Which is that one moment in life that can never be outdone in terms of how happy it made you – yeah , My first Job !
18. The most precious gift you ever received – precious , B’day gift from wife !!  
19. The cutest sight you have seen (first hand, not on the internet) – sight as in sight hmm !!! was on my honeymoon ! no comments !!
20. The one place you would like to settle at, in life – apni dilli !!!


Thanks Jahnvi for taking pain to interview all of us.

The Versatile Blogger Award

The Versatile Blogger Me :)

I am happy to share with everyone here, that my blog has earned me "The Versatile Blogger" Award.


It came as a surprise this Monday morning from almost nowhere ! I am thankful to -N- :)
Well This is really nice and feels great when some one appreciates you.
There are some rules for me now.
•Nominate 10-15 fellow bloggers
 •Inform the bloggers of their nomination
 •Share 7 random things about yourself
 •Thank the blogger who nominated you (with blog link)
 •Add the Versatile Blogger Award Pic on your blog post


Nominate 10-15 fellow bloggers
The bloggers who according to me deserve this award would be  :

1.kajal .

2.Pooja.

(for the creativity this time)

3.Varsha.

(for the versatile moments you capture)

4.Alka.

5.Saru.

6.Nibedita

7.Hariharan.

8.Dr.Mandeep.

9.Kinara

10.Amit agarwal

Well I really appreciate the bloggers I have nominated .Congratulations to all those i have awarded!Here are the rules that you will have to follow.

•Nominate 10-15 fellow bloggers
 •Inform the bloggers of their nomination
 •Share 7 random things about yourself
 •Thank the blogger who nominated you (with blog link)
 •Add the Versatile Blogger Award Pic on your blog post
This can get boring for the readers as I have always had trouble answering this question. But then, here goes.

7 Random things about me :


He he , This is interesting but I have already blogged about myself a lot and dedicated a page to my self as well as When i was Tagged I wrote about myself  , so you can go through this page and see 11 things about me :).

Well I would like to thank -N-  again for awarding me , It really feels great.

Har Din Diwali Girl !!!

1.Every girl goes through a phase in her life where for a couple of weeks she thinks that she is HDDG* and eventually comes back to normal in a couple of months.

2.Every guy goes through a phase in his life where he thinks of not going to the barber for a month just to see how he looks in long hair and eventually comes back to normal in a couple of months , same applies with the beard.

*HDDG= HAR DIN DIWALI GIRL -The one who have mashkara, lashkara , kajal on her and wears shining red, blue ,green clothes with long heals every day .


PS: HDDG is copyrighted by Rahul Miglani.Reproduction of this, either in part or in its entirety, without the explicit permission of the author is prohibited and will be dealt with strict actions.

PS: I love girls ,this work is just for positive humor coming out of our daily life.
PS: I respect girls and believe "I love women"."They’re the best thing ever created"."But,If they want to be like men and come down to our level,I cannot do anything about that."

Difference between Porn and Erotica

Difference between Porn and Erotica

Well a few days back I had a conversation on the inditalk witha  fewllo blogger who called my posts were porn.I mean come on you really dont know the diffrence between porn and erotica and being judgemental at once does not make sense.I always belive when u cook something to SERVE other ppl...do taste it first as the READER thats all , and when i read its complete erotica and no where closer to being porn.To me porn is usually visual and geared towards men. Its sole purpose is to physically arouse and stimulate. I have nothing against porn, it serves its purpose, but erotica goes much deeper. Erotica appeals more to women and is often written by and for women even though there are both male and female writers and readers.The thing is what I have written is usually inpired by real life and these things does happen , but writing ****ty things about that is not the purpose , My purpose is serve a story .A story telling technique that is just the way I want to write it.Come on If i will keep on talking about my blog only you will take it as advertising my blog but let me tell you many people here dont even understand the diffrence between the two .And out of 93 posts I have on ly blog only ten are tagged as erotioc .If some one just comes and says that my blog is porn I will not take that.Come on First understand the thing and then make any comment , This is not to offend anyone in particular.I love to picture the characters and see them in my mind, watch the stories take shape and unfold. With porn it is all laid out, no imagination involved unless you take the time to imagine yourself in the scene. Erotica often has more depth with characters that are more realistic. It is more than just sex; it can be emotional, complicated, frivolous, fantasy filled, funny, sexy or serious. Erotica can be very diverse, as diverse as the authors who write it and I would say my few of my stories involve abuse few onvolve humor few invlove sarcas, and few involve just an experience and no story in particular was just directed at being sexy.

I would sum up as writing/showing porn is an art where as writing porn is a craft which only a few can do effectively.

so Before being judgemental please be sure....POV guys !

Why Do you Blog

Why do you write !!!!A lot of people ask me many times “Rahul Why do you write !!!! “Now Let me tell you all there are 1000 of reasons for me to write . 

I write when I feel like criticizing something.

I write when I feel like taunting on something.

I write when I want to share my happiness

.I write when I feel like sharing my sadness.

I write to find out different perspectives.

I write to find out different solutions.

I write to find out the emptiness in me.

I write to solve the emptiness of others.

I write when I feel like praising someone.

I write when I m cheerful.I write when I m sad.

I write when I am in mood.

I write when I hate something .

I write when I Love something .

I write when I see a movie.

I write when I feel like .

I write when I feel like impressing some one.

I write when I feel like venting out something.

I write when I feel disgusted about something.

I write when I feel like sharing something.

I write when I feel like writing(sharing) a story.

I write when I miss someone.

Do you still need a reason .

Look I don’t know which reason will make me to write some particular day , so if there are 1000 reasons for me to write something there wud be infinite for others to do so as well !

THE PUNISHMENT , I GOT IN SCHOOL

THE PUNISHMENT , I GOT IN SCHOOL

Hey...yesterday i called 1 of my school friend who is handling his own business there at my hometown...as we were remembering the good old school days ....he reminded me of our history teacher .Mrs. dua, she was very sweet, calm and nice but one thing was just amazing. The way she used to give punishments .her ways of giving punishments were very funny and unusual..I was [as expected ]one of the most mischievous kid of the class. So the incidence goes like this The class was 8th std and we were doing nothing other than cracking jokes and making all kinds of noises and suddenly MaM DUA calls up my name and says...RAHUL why are you making lots of noise...stand up..and come here .I stood up..she said join your hands like in a prayer and close your eyes and I did that ...and then she said be in this position for 15 minutes in the front of the whole class ....and that was it ....that was my punishment ..When I closed my eyes I could here everyone saying ''look at him look at him...he is opening his eyes...this and that and all that...i mean it was quite embarrassing...whenever i remember that day , it simply brings a smile on my face ......
Hey have u ever been in to a situation where u have been punished like this or may be got a more embarrassing punishment ...share it...

The Watchman

I have this habit of making friends with all the watchmen’s of our society. Now there is this old man who use to sit below our building as a watchmen. Some two months back he was just an old man who had no expressions what so ever on his face, looked quite dangerous and I had never seen him utter even a single word. He was very weak and old and used to wear broad spectacles.

But as my habit goes, whenever I used to enter or leave the building I used to sing him a song that too quite loud. I know that’s weird but that was my effort to make him smile at least. He must have been in his late sixties, I m not sure but he was still expressionless. Then I started singing louder and louder every time I used to enter or leave with full expressions pointed towards him, songs ranging from “tujhe dekha to ye jana sanam” to “ai meri zohara-zabi”.

And then came the day when he smiled , about after 15 days or so , he smiled ;and that gave me a sense of achievement and the song was “khudi ko kar buland itna”.

Now every day I used to sing him song as many times I used to enter or leave the building and both of us used to smile at each other .Whatever may be my mood specially while coming back from office , singing that song for him made me smile and onlookers gave me such looks like I have gone mad but never cared for anybody .

But as I returned from vacations on Sunday I could not find him , have you seen him , he used to sit at D3 building security at kunal icon. Tell him that I miss him.

The Honor Killing

The prosecution alleged it was a case of premeditated murder, staged to look like an accident after it was carried out. Prosecutors said the defendants drowned their victims in Turali , the River on shores of which this beautiful city of Turalistan was situated.

The dead bodies were still to be found out , the allegation was from the newly appointed young Chanakya the Lokayukta of Turalistan , his version was that the whole city of turalistan knew that mriga and hansa were killed after both their parents drowned them in river turali as they did not approve their love. The lokayukta was not fighting against the culprits of this particular case , he was fighting against the whole turalistan but more importantly he was fighting against the society's outlook towards the so called "inappropriate relationship"

The Superior Court Judge Shivendra Nagpal said ..."the evidence clearly supported the conviction"."It is difficult to conceive of a more heinous, more despicable, more honorless crime," Shivendra said. "The apparent reason behind these cold-blooded, shameful murders was that the couple completely innocent victims offended Turalistans's completely twisted concept of honor , that has absolutely no place in any civilized society."He added that the honor killings a practice that is "barbaric and unacceptable "But there was more to it Defense lawyers said the deaths were accidental and to add to it the dead bodies were yet to be found out , the convicted should not be treated like criminals.

But Mr. Shivendra had more to add but keep quite as there was no lawyer adopted the case against the parents and more importantly the panchayat of Turalistan.

Chanakya a Bachelor in law , took permission from the judge to adopt the case,Chanakya argued that..........""" it’s about equality, but it’s also about something else: commitment. Conservatives believe in the ties that bind us; that society is stronger when we make vows to each other and support each other. I only want to emphasize on one point and that is to say, honor killing is a punishment for the women who act not according to the religion, tradition and culture imposed on them. To be more precise it is a punishment for the ones who desire to run their own lifestyle and choose their own partner. The victims are women and young girls who have thirst to be free and they are not willing to compromise for less than modern and humane life style. Honor killing can only be compared with the witch burning that took place during the European Medieval period and it should be seen as comparably disgraceful. Keep in mind that the victims of honor killing were at the forefront of the struggle for a well deserved human life. We should not allow these symbols of resistance to vanish before our eyes."

But as the dead bodies were yet to be found Chankya was left only with morals and rules and some advice to give but was awarded with nothingness , Mr.Shivendra said it was shameful but the verdict had to go in favor of the Parents.

Years past by , Turali saw thirty seasons , but everything had to be corrected. Miss Mynah the newly appointed judge came to this beautiful city .The case was reopened. Mynah asked the now retired lawyer Mr Chanakya to take up the case again. In a landmark judgment in this honor killing case, which happened thirty years ago the court awarded three years sentence to the parents for “attempt to murder” of a couple on the diktats of a self-styled community Panchayat for marrying against societal norms.Turali has to accept the judgment.

No one knew Mriga and Hansa escaped the drowning and were accepted in the kurali village on the other shore of turali .Mynah was their only daughter which they had with the help of The sperm bank. Mynah has made Mriga and Hansa Proud.

PS : Mriga and Hansa were a lesbian Couple.


PS : This story has been written in acceptance of the challenge thrown by Nibedita Bose from Indiblogger.
PS : The events and characters portrayed are completely fictitious. Any resemblance to any persons living or dead is either completely unintentional, or very poorly covered up.
PS : Just another short story, your comments are precious to me.